ok, well i checked the fuse on top of the solonoid and wiggled the wires around there on the battery and it started right up. so i'm thinking something was loose there. Good because it was easy but bad because now i dont know exactly what it was. It did cut out just before it completely died. I didnt think anything of it because it was so quick, thought it was my imaginiation. Is it possible for the relay to be bad but the sled will start back up and run fine?
Also there are two relays i see in the fuse box, are those the relays you are all refering to that could be bad? Do i change both or try each one? and/or are there others that i should check, and are they all the same? I know theres tons of info on here about relays, i can search later when i have more time.